The Fastest Way to Climax When You’re on Top
What exactly is “Grinding Clitoral Stimulation”?
The woman on top position is hands-down the best position that you can do to induce your own climax during penetrative sex. He can see you riding him (visual stimulus, so that he keeps his stiffness), you can control the rhythm and the movement, and you can GRIND.
The last bit is particularly important because it solves a lot of problems for women who want to climax faster in the woman on top position.
1. Grinding lets you rest your legs
The usual up and down position can be challenging for women who aren’t used to doing squats and lunges regularly. In fact, even women who are fit and who exercise daily may have trouble maintaining the woman on top position for a long time.
Gravity works against us when we’re on top. Legs can get wobbly and you can lose your balance. Leg pain can be a huge turn off and can distract you.
Grinding when you’re tired keeps you from losing your sexy mood and it pushes his penis deeper inside your vagina, which works for both of you.
2. Grinding lets you rub your clitoris on his pelvis.
Imagine having him inside you and getting clitoral stimulation simultaneously. Of course, you can always use your fingers to stimulate your clitoris while you’re riding him, but if you can grind to stimulate your clitoris, your hands will be free to tousle his hair, touch your nipples, touch his nipples or bring his face closer to yours for a lingering French kiss.
3. Grinding lets you play with his balls
This can be applied when you’re in the reverse cowgirl position. If his balls are still soft to the touch (they tense up during orgasm), you can rub them on your vaginal lips while you’re in the reverse cowgirl position. Anatomically, the skin on his testicles is made of the same stuff as your labias so it also contains the same amount of nerve ends as your vaginal lips.
Some guys are ticklish down there, which makes touching his balls more fun for you. You can press your thumb on your clitoris and use the rest of your fingers to play with his testicles and your vaginal lips.
How to Grind Your Way To Orgasm
There’s no exact science to grinding, but here’s a technique I use all the time: pretend you’re sexy dancing. Sounds simple enough, eh?
Visualize it: when you move your upper body to the right, your lower body moves to the left; and vice versa. Do this a few more times and play it up by putting your hands up in the air and gyrating… there you go, the sexy grinding that will make both of you climax.
Note: strangely enough, the first time I did this sexy dance/grind, my boyfriend’s eyes widened and he started muttering “think of baseball, man!” over and over. I wonder why.. .. (wink)
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