You might be wondering, men are already nearly guaranteed to always climax during sex so why should you even learn about his secret erogenous zones? Well, that question deserves another question. Do you want to be a good partner in bed or do you want to be a GREAT mind-blowing lover?!?
Sure, you can pleasure his body but knowing his secret sex zones will enable you to really make the most out of his very own anatomy. Besides, knowing the little things that make him delirious in bed also means minimum effort for you right?
Well, we won’t keep you in suspense any longer. Read on to find out what his hidden hot knobs and, more importantly, how you can best stimulate them for maximum pleasure.
Erogenous Zone #1: The Great Cremaster
You know that the testicles are VERY important right? So much so that it ‘retreats’ when exposed to cold, and relaxes or goes down when it’s warm. Well, the muscle that makes all this retreating and moving forward thing happen is the cremaster.
Think of the cremaster as a bungee cord that pulls his testicles up and down, depending on the weather. Great, but how does this help you in bed?
Well, glad you asked. You see, the cremaster responds to sexual stimuli too. And as your man gets more and more excited, the cremaster then starts to pull his balls up or inward, until he can’t take it anymore and orgasms. Thus, to DELAY his climax, you should relax the cremaster!
Cremaster 101: To delay your mans’ climax and prolong his pleasure, do this: gently pull down on his family jewels. By tugging his boys down, you are slightly contradicting the cremaster’s pull and thus tricking his anatomy into thinking that he’s not all that wound up and ready to pop! It’s not really a mind over matter trick but more of a going against gravity ploy.
Now of course, there’s sensual tugging and there’s yanking. So be sure you do the former. For instance, as you give him some darn good oral, make sure you are simultaneously tugging at his balls so that the cremaster doesn’t get the better of him. Make him focus on his member by applying some amazing tongue and mouth action. At the same time, cup his scrotum and gently pull them downwards.
Do this for as long as you want and for as long as he can take it. By delaying his climax you’re building up that sexual tension so high that when he finally comes… he won’t know what hit him!
Erogenous Zone #2: The Prostate
If women have the G-spot, then men have the P-spot… and just like women’s pleasure nubs, the P-spot is quite secretive and hard to find too. But let’s not allow that to deter us!
The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland that enfolds the urethra. Its primary purpose is to hold a slightly alkaline solution that gets excreted with his semen when he ejaculates. But apart from this very practical purpose, you can tap the prostate for a highly sexual response.
Prostate 101: To reach the prostate, you need to go via the corpus cavernosa, the tissues that run up and down his penis. (We told you the P-spot is secretive too!) The corpus cavernosa tissues get pumped up with blood when a man gets excited, which in turn is causes an erection in your man.
To stimulate the prostate, you should know how to handle his member. That is, to handle it in such a way that he gets pleasure, while delaying his orgasm. To achieve this, simply enclose your hand around his penis and then move your hand TOWARDS his body (as opposed to making your hand go up and down his member constantly).
If you make your hand go towards his body, the corpus cavernosa tissues tend to ‘cuddle’ his prostate. The result? A mind-blowing internal massage on his prostate!
Erogenous Zone #3: His Sexy Lips
The lips are so underrated! True, first kisses are always hot but as the relationship ages, it seems that the lips are so taken for granted! However, the lips are actually extremely sensitive because apart from having a very thin skin covering, they are packed with tons of nerve endings. So if you know what to do, you can make him quiver by just applying the right techniques on that very small part of his anatomy.
Lips 101: Start the titillation by kissing him all over, except on the lips. Plant kisses all over his face, over the length of his body, and back to his face again. When he’s excited and wants full on lip-to-lip action, tease him more by doing the following.
- Lick his lips with your tongue.
- Gently tug at his lower lip with your teeth.
- Gently suck on his lower lip.
- Gently suck on his tongue.
- Plant another wet lick on his lips.
- Blow your hot breath on his lips to make them tingle.
You may even want to have a glass of iced water next to you so that you can apply hot and cold kisses on him!
Apart from this new playful you, the different pressures and sensations on his lips will drive him wild!
Erogenous Zone #4: His Pert, Erect Nipples
Do you like it when your boyfriend/husband/lover pays lavish attention on your breasts? Don’t your eyes just roll back into your head as you arch and give him full, unadulterated access to your nipples? Well, if you get so hot via your nipples then it’s not really surprising that he get delirious too via his nipples. The question is: are you giving his nipples enough attention?
Nipples 101: Licking, sucking, and gently grazing his nipples with your teeth are ‘normal’. For a special treat thought, try this: get on top of your man. And as you visually delight him with a spectacular display of your bouncing boobs, reach out and draw lazy circles on his nipples!
If you have slightly long nails, then be sure to gently graze his nipples with them! The pressure of your womanhood around his penis, the visual pleasure he gets from your bosom, and the tenseness he gets from you fiddling with his nipples will put him on sexual pins and needles!
Erogenous Zone #5: The Nerve-Ending Rich Perineum
The perineum is that slightly hard patch of tissues between his balls and his anus. It may look like a semi-hard, flat surface but it’s chock-full of nerve endings. If stimulated correctly, you can give him a mind-blowing orgasm he’s never had before.
Perineum 101: So how do you get to his ‘perineum point’? It’s not really the best of ideas idea to go ahead and say “bend over, honey” or “spread your legs, honey”. However, what you may not realize is that you can get to his perineum while you guys are in the missionary position.
As he’s about to come, reach between his legs and apply pressure on his perineum using the knuckle of your index finger. Why the knuckle? Well the perineum is quite sensitive so you don’t want to scratch him accidentally.
You can also try to bring him to his climax via this sensitive spot. How? Apply various types of pressure on it. Draw lazy circles clockwise and then go counterclockwise, blow your hot breath on it, or maybe even lick it. Think of it as your clitoris. Whatever it is that you think you want on your nub, try it on his perineum point.
