For men:
Have you ever thought about watching your girlfriend go at it with another girl?
Have you ever arranged to “catch” your girl in a compromising position with another woman?
If you’re a guy and you have a lesbian sex fetish, you aren’t alone. One guy + two women sex is probably the most sought-after male sex fantasy.
The problem is, it can backfire.
- She likes it too much and end up ditching you for her
- She thinks you’re a perv and leave you
- She feels used
- She realizes she can’t orgasm with you and she can with her
The fact is, some women don’t know they have a bisexual side until you show them. If your girlfriend never tried it, she doesn’t know what she’s missing. The risk is showing her that it’s fun, and that you enjoy it too. While it started out tame enough (she does it because she wants to please you), she might just decide that it’s not a one-time thing.
Take a look at this article at Men.Style.com
Although it takes more than sexual experimentation to make a woman gay, there’s a particularly cruel irony when a lesbian-obsessed guy gets ditched for another woman. “It is sensationalized—we get off watching two women. But real life does not operate that way,” says Amity Pierce Buxton, founder of the Straight Spouse Network, which sponsors support groups for spouses and partners who have or have had LGBT mates. Buxton estimates that three out of every ten people who contact her group are men—victims of a reality that diverges from the Penthouse “Forum” script.
As their mates dirty-dance to Katy Perry’s “I Kissed a Girl,” fixate on the latest LiLo and SamRo pics, and rave about Vicky Cristina Barcelona, even the most sensitive guys are apt to cast them in a few scissor-sister scenarios. The problem is, most men are unprepared for what happens after their wives or girlfriends do a shot of the Tila Tequila punch. “A lot of guys don’t consider the consequences,” says Jonathan Alpert, a Manhattan therapist who has counseled hetero couples confronting lesbian flings. “It can be disastrous.”
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