If there’s one edge that women have over men when it comes to sex, it is none other than their ability to have not just one but two, three or even four orgasms in one night. Decades ago, the possibility of the female of the species even reaching their sexual peak as visibly as men do was a distinct possibility.
Over the years, however, more and more women are discovering that there is a way for them to indulge in the sexual act, reach their climax and even get to enjoy one orgasm after another. But what if you are the type who is having problems reaching even one orgasm when you’re tangling the sheets with your significant other? Is there really a set of steps that you can follow on how to have multiple orgasms? Read on to find out.
Is Having Multiple Orgasms as Easy as 1, 2, 3?
So is having multiple orgasms as simple for women as counting 1, 2, 3? Not necessarily. For the most part, it is women who have problems reaching orgasm in the first place who might have trouble achieving multiple orgasms. But neither is it an impossible feat.
To improve your chances of achieving multiple orgasms, take a look at the following steps and tips that you need to keep in mind:
1. Remember that your ability to reach your sexual peak improves with age.
Women who are in their 20’s are lucky if they have already discovered the benefits of having multiple orgasms at their age. For others who are in their 30’s, 40’s or even 50’s, having multiple orgasms actually increase the older that you get.
This is probably due to the fact that as you gain more sexual experience and the more comfortable you are with your body, the better knowledge you will have when it comes to what you want in bed. When you know exactly what turns you on, the easier it will be for you to reach your sexual peak because you can communicate it with your partner and you can get to enjoy the sensations more openly.
2. Familiarize yourself with your ‘woman parts’ and how every touch or stroke affects the way that you feel in bed.
Unlike men whose erogenous zones seem to be limited to the penis and their genitals, women have a more complex set of private parts. There are women who reach an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, there are those who want to have their G-spots stimulated, while other prefer a combination of the two.
You will have better chances of reaching multiple orgasms if you know how you like to be stroked and petted in these parts, as well as which rhythm or pace it is that you like best. You can experiment with different sensations using a sex toy, or discover your multiple orgasmic pleasures when tangling the sheets with your partner.
3. Don’t be afraid to use props if necessary.
More importantly, remember that reaching two, three or even more orgasms is all about the fun involved in the process. For this, you can make use of props like scented candles to have a romantic ambiance in the room. Use sexy costumes or have a wide array of dildos, vibrators, ticklers, body paint, edible lotion or aromatic oils to choose from.
By keeping these tips in mind, you will have a better knowledge of how to have multiple orgasms and experience mind-blowing sensations in bed – whether you’re going solo or having fun with a partner.
