Blow job is something that is almost a given when it comes to making love, but not all women enjoy this activity, for obvious reasons. At first glance, it seems that only the man is gratified, particularly when he simply leans back and takes it. Blow job doesn’t have to be a chore. A woman can use blow job to increase her arousal (and do some covert self-service undertakings on the side).
Here are some blow job tips from me:
1. Show Some Tongue
Don’t be shy about the whole thing and exaggerate all your actions, from opening your mouth to take him in to licking the shaft up to the head. No, you won’t look weird. On the contrary, you will look sexiest when you’re showing some tongue. Burn the image of your pretty lips on his cock and start lapping up his precum juices with an open mouth, tongue extended.
2. Don’t Just Bob Your Head Up and Down
If he looks bored while you’re going down on him, maybe he can sense your boredom. A lot of us would want nothing more than to lie back and be eaten out, but sex has always been about giving and taking. If you act like blowing him is beneath you, then don’t complain when he gives a less than stellar performance when he’s eating you out.
Feel sexy while you’re going down on him, and use your hands to turn him on (by fondling his balls) or turning yourself on more (by touching yourself while you’re blowing him).
3. Touch Your Clit or Use a Vibrator
He won’t object to your masturbation as long as it’s fueling your appetite for his cock. The more aroused you are, the more sexy you will feel while going down on him. You can even file the whole thing in your mental shelf of sex fantasies for you to go back to when you’re masturbating alone.
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This is such great advice. For a long time, I simply performed this act as if it was a chore. After I started to let myself enjoy it more, I found that BOTH of us had a better time — and my man suddenly seemed much more excited to reciprocate
I’ve always felt liberated when blowing a man. I can be as creative as I want without feeling foolish.
Thanks for coming by sister!