Clitoral stimulation is all about gentleness and communication.
The clitoris is an extremely sensitive part of the female body and it reacts strongly to the lightest touch. The first thing you want to know is that you don’t start right out stimulating the clitoris, this can be too much stimulation too fast and can cause discomfort and for the woman to pull away.
With as sensitive as this area is, if you make a mistake that causes discomfort, you may not get a second chance, or at the very least, she will not be in her comfort zone without a good deal of light attention to the surrounding areas.
Even with that, she may tense up when you come into contact with her clitoris.
Rather than make the mistake of immediate stimulation, start with caressing other parts of her body, her arms, back, thighs, abdominal area, anything that promotes relaxation and tenderness.
Tenderness will promote relaxation and allow her to slowly get into the mood. With light caressing, talking and tenderness, move closer to her vaginal area, with the same type of interaction. Once she is relaxed and ready, you can start stimulating the clitoris very gently.
Pay attention to her reactions and if you see any negativity, back off a bit and go back to caressing around that area.
