The clitoris can be your friend and as with any friend you want to treat it well. The clitoris is a rather sensitive and can develop hard feelings quickly if mistreated.
Gentleness is the key when dealing with the clitoris.
Approach should be slow and well thought out.
- Caressing the thighs and abdominal area will help to start the stimulation process within the clitoris.
- Move your caresses closer and closer, caressing the inner thighs around the edges of the vaginal lips, move past the hood of the clitoris brushing it lightly. Even this light brush is likely to produce a response.
- Begin softly caressing the hood that protects the clitoris, this will transmit partially to the clitoris and stimulate it enough to begin to engorge with blood.
- As the stimulation increases, take the clitoris very gently between your fingers and manipulate it very lightly. This area is packed with nerves and every nerve will be at a heightened state, transmitting the sensations created by your manipulation.
As you manipulate, the clitoris will become more and more engorged and more receptive to your attentions.
You can easily produce an orgasm simply by gentle, constant attention to the clitoris itself.
Do not ever go directly to the clitoris and begin manipulating it without any build up. Doing this will cause over stimulation and if you don’t find yourself having to remove your partner from the ceiling, you may find yourself reeling from the concussion you received from her knee or foot when she jumped to get away from you. Be gentle, you both will benefit from it.
