- First off, make sure you’re well groomed. Shave so your skin is smooth against her tender flesh.
- Start with some gentle caressing and romance, then move on towards interacting with her more sensitive tissue.
The most fascinating thing about the tongue when used in a sexual context is that it can change consistency from soft to hard and back again, it can be thin or wide, pointed, bladed or just soft.
There is no other bodily organ that is so diverse in its abilities and it is enveloped in saliva which is a natural lubricant.
Oral sex is somewhat edgy and some women consider their sexual organs to be dirty and not attractive by any means.
- This can make a woman self conscious about any oral contact with them in that area.
- This can detract and distract from the pleasure that can be derived from this type of interaction, so make sure she is comfortable with the whole thing and proceed slowly, keeping her comfort in mind.
If she is very concerned, taking a nice hot shower together giving special attention to gently cleaning that area might alleviate her self-consciousness.
The whole of the clitoris is sensitive.
Explore with your tongue with all of it’s different shapes and firmness, make sure that your exploration is gentle and slow, too much stimulation can be uncomfortable and cause her to pull away.
