Sex can sometimes be wild, downright naughty and romantic. It depends on how you want it. One exercise that women inadvertently do during masturbation is fantasizing or visualizing the kind of sex that gets them off. A sex fantasy during masturbation varies, but sooner or later, a pattern will emerge. There are instances when our sex fantasies generally reflect our mood, the things that bothered (or stimulated) us during our work day and the things that we look for in a relationship.
Romance is one of the best sexual fantasy themes. Think sunsets, sex under the stars, sex after a quarrel (make up sex) and sex after a marriage proposal!
There are some women play the same fantasy over and over inside their heads during self-service and during intercourse. Some women have found it more pleasurable to ‘polish’ a sex fantasy down to the details because everything about the sex, the conversation, the mood and the relationship situation between the lovers, are emotional triggers for female orgasm. A lot of women are into romantic novels and most of us (myself included) have grown up consuming shelves upon shelves of romantic stories (a favorite of mine has always been Cinderella!).
I came across this funny post at blogofhilarity and it’s about romantic conversation during sex. Of course, the featured comic is more funny than romantic, but the message was quite clear. Part of the reason why women climax fast during “romantic sex” is the fact that their guards are down. In a woman’s mind, she’s doing the deed with someone who cares for her and love is the most potent aphrodisiac. The result? A faster climax for her.
