Women need more time than men to reach a climax. So why not apply a few tricks to guarantee that you also come tonight?
It’s not often that you come during sex, do you? But those few times that you did were absolutely heavenly, right? So why not employ the tips I have for you below to ensure that you get treated to an orgasm each time he gets one?
For starters, consider the exercise of knowing your own body more. If you know exactly what brings you the most pleasure, then you’ll be more adept at reaching your climax. To this end, following are mind-blowing (pun intended) tips to reaching sexual nirvana sooner, and more often. Try each one individually or try them all together. At least one is guaranteed to be the key to your orgasms.
The Virtues or Masturbation
As mentioned above, you should know how to bring yourself pleasure before anyone can. And to do this, you must engage in a little masturbation. As you arouse yourself try to play close attention that you ‘need’ to get over the edge. For instance, what pressure do you want applied? At what speed? Do you find yourself thinking of something or is your mind completely blank?
By knowing what makes you reach an orgasm, you’ll be able to re-create these things the next time you have sex with your partner.
Don’t forget to establish a romantic and sexy mood too. Go for soft pillows, scented candles, and soft, romantic music. Find out your own ‘sexy mood profile’ and you’ll see that this will greatly help you arrive at your orgasmic destination faster.
The Power of Sexual Thinking
Sexual thinking is one way to ensure that you reach your orgasm sooner with your lover. You see, women are more mental creatures. That is, we want to be stimulated a lot in our minds first before we even get wet, let alone reach a climax. So who says that this sexy mental stimulation should come from him?
Throughout the day, think of all the hot and naughty things you want done to you. Close your eyes and imagine your partner doing them all to you. I guarantee that by the time he lays eyes on you tonight, you’ll be having that sexy, smoldering look on your eyes already.
If painting erotic mental pictures are not enough, then bring out the vibrators! However, be careful; just bring yourself to the brink but not all the way. By doing this, your body ‘will pick off where you left off’ by the time your partner touches you tonight, making orgasms within easy reach.
‘Big O’ Sex Positions
In general, women have two focal sex spots: the clitoris and the g-spot. Most males know a lot already about the clit. The g-spot, however, needs a bit more exploration. Engage in heavy foreplay; it’s important to be stimulated before you try this. Now lie down and put a small pillow under your bottom to tilt your groin up a bit. Ask him to insert his middle and index fingers, palm up, inside you. About 2-3″ up your front vaginal wall, he should feel for a slightly puffed up and rough spot. Once he finds the g-spot, it’s best if he can stimulate BOTH your sex zones for maximum pleasure.
Women love the woman-on-top position because we get to control pretty much everything that’s going on while we’re up there. Another reason to love this position is because we can have both our pleasure zones stimulated to the max. For your clitoris, it’s easy to simply bump, rub and grind against him. But what about the g-spot? Here’s a tip: instead of going up and down on his member, go round and round it! This way, your clitoris gets attention as you rub upwards, and his member hits your g-spot as you rub downwards.
Being taken from behind is another great sex position for double stimulation. In this position, his penis gets to hit and graze your g-spot with almost every thrust, no matter his ‘size’. However, if he’s ‘well hung’ then he may even reach something that REALLY very few men have reached before – you’re A-spot. This is something that scientists believe can induce instant orgasms when stimulated. In addition, if ever you feel conscious for whatever reason (e.g., some women can’t keep a straight face while coming!) then at least being taken from behind means you don’t get to face him!
Doggy-style or not, you can also try to squeeze your PC muscles during intercourse to up the heat factor a bit. Don’t know what your PC muscles are? Of course you do! It’s what you use when you try to control your pee! By tensing or tightening these muscles, you are creating more friction between his penis (as he moves in and out) and your vagina.
A Double-Serving of Pleasure Please…
Women have many sensual spots all over their bodies. And it’s important to stimulate as many erotic areas as you can to speed up the road to the Big O. For instance, while riding him, take his hand and guide it to your clitoris so he can stimulate that too. While he’s going down on you with his tongue, ask him to reach up and fondle your breasts.
Another idea is to have him reach in front of you and fondle your nipples or clit as he takes you from behind. Encourage him to ‘multi-task’ so that he can stimulate as many of your erogenous zones as possible. This way, sexual stimulation is coming from various parts of your body and you will surely reach your climax sooner.
A Little Help Goes A Long Way
Sometimes, a little help can go a long way to making you reach your orgasm sooner. For instance, if he just can’t seem to find the right rhythm to apply on your C-spot tonight, reach for the vibrator. If you think that you’ll be hurting his ego if you do this, then make it a TREAT for him. How? Lie back, relax, spread your legs and use the gizmo on your clitoris. All the time, your man is watching directly in front of you! Trust me, you are making one of HIS sexual fantasies come true with this one so it’s really a win-win situation!
The truth of the matter is we women need A LOT of time to reach our orgasms compared to men. So do what you have to do to speed up your climaxes. In the end, it’s something that benefits your sexual relationship with each other.
