Most men, whether they admit to it or not, really do care whether their female partner has an orgasm. A lot of them aren’t really sure how to go about ensuring that it takes place, though. They might feel in a rush to have their own climax and they get frustrated when their partner doesn’t have hers as soon as would be hoped for. They can also have trouble with the idea that regular sex doesn’t always cause a woman to have an orgasm. Most women need stimulation of the clitoris, and regular intercourse doesn’t always cause that.
There are times when it does, but most of that depends on the angle of sex and the shape of the individuals’ bodies. Men and women who ‘fit together well’ can have a very satisfying experience this way – and some women simply achieve orgasm more easily than others.
For men who want to help their partner, though, the best thing is to take some time. A woman’s orgasm is not the same as a man’s in the sense that it’s not as mechanical. Most men can have an orgasm simply from stimulation, such as rubbing of the penis. Most women need romance, and a build-up to arousal before they will achieve orgasm. By taking time and asking your partner what she needs and wants – and by being open to some experimentation – you can give your partner orgasms much more easily.
