For many women, an orgasm is an elusive thing. Some women almost never have one, and they certainly aren’t as common in women as they are in men. There are ways, though, that you can achieve orgasm more easily. If you’re with a partner, you need to make sure that your partner knows what you like and what you want. That’s hard to do, though, when you don’t even know.
Experimenting on your own has long been seen as shameful by a lot of people, but that attitude is slowly starting to change. What you do by yourself should be your business, and yours alone. Learning how to touch and stimulate yourself can help you to show another person what you like, too, so there’s no reason to be embarrassed about it.
Once you can consistently bring yourself to orgasm you’ll be better able to have an orgasm with a partner, because you’ll know more about what you like and don’t like. Most women need some kind of stimulation of the clitoris in order to have an orgasm, so don’t be afraid to touch, and don’t be afraid to show your partner how to touch. He or she should be very sensitive to your needs, and it’s important that the two of you work together to achieve the best and most satisfying sexual experience for both of you.
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Good post…communication is key, and most definitely, attention to the clitoris…its cannot be said enough, clitoris, clitoris, clitoris….
Take a look at the blog post I wrote today on erection exercises:
“How I’ve Fortified my Erections…”
Have a good one!