I have always said that dirty thoughts and secret “perversions” are a salient part of the female orgasm blueprint. Fantasies lead to orgasm, it’s that simple. Now, it should follow that when a woman can fantasize about sex in juicy detail, she can orgasm faster , right?
RIGHT~! A new research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine proves this point. The results of the study suggest that for women with high Emotional Intelligence can orgasm more frequently than women who don’t have the same brain power.
We found emotional intelligence to be positively correlated with both frequency of orgasm during intercourse and masturbation
This article on the Daily Mail takes the discussion one step further with the article Bad luck bimbos: Intelligent women have better sex.
In another part of the web, Adam Zimbardo and Jezzie Fulmen discuss the things you need to consider when looking for Dr. Right, a sex therapist to discuss your orgasm problems.
If you have a pretty specific problem and a good idea up front of exactly what it is, then there may be a particular approach that has been shown by evidence to work best for that problem. For instance, if you are a woman who has never had an orgasm (and your doctor has ruled out physiological problems) then there’s a specific behavioral therapy that has something like a 90% effectiveness rate for anorgasmic women, and you probably want to talk to someone who’s familiar with that treatment.
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