As we’ve mentioned before, an orgasm is an orgasm, and there’s no use debating whether to give her a clitoral one or a gspot (vaginal) one. Just get in there and help her get off!
Here are some tips for our male readers who are still in the dark about how to navigate her female orgasm blue print:
1. If she won’t climax in one position, do some tongue lashing before you go for another position. If you’re in the missionary and she’s getting dry, don’t rush to doggie just yet. Pull out and go down on her. While you’re at it, fondle and touch her other hot spots (neck, breasts, feet, inner thighs and stomach). The key is not to get impatient. If it feels like you’re doing foreplay all over again, so be it. Just make sure she’s fully re-heated before you rearrange your bodies and start pumping again.
2. Say this line, “show me how you masturbate”. You can play it up some more by telling her to pretend you’re not there and she’s all alone in her room with a dildo (your penis!). Have her close her eyes and just go for it like she does when she’s alone. This exercise will be educational as well as exciting for you.
3. Buy her some sex toys and bring them to bed with you. Erase all thoughts of girls getting addicted on sex toys and forgetting they have boyfriends. She would really appreciate it if you picked one that you think she would love. You can use a sex toy on her while you’re resting for round two. She need not stop her pleasure just because you’re resting, right?
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Open communication and open to experience. Not to oversimplify it, but in the end, that’s what the man needs to have and be.
How my partner masturbates is just about the first thing I want to know about her sexuality. But asking that question requires the right timing, yes.