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A woman is able to orgasm during sex when one or both of her most sensitive buttons are stimulated: the clitoris and the G Spot. The former is that small nub located above the vaginal hole, and it is packed with nerve endings so densely clustered that a woman can feel clitoral stimulation just by wearing tight jeans. The latter has enjoyed the fame of being referred to as a woman’s inner clitoris, or that secret spot on the urethral sponge that is said to be the cause of squirting (female ejaculation).
The clitoris, the women’s main organ of pleasure is usually not stimulated during normal penetration. We can all sit around and debate the possibility of a G Spot orgasm and the exact location of the G Spot, but we could be missing a very big point here.
The clitoris has always been renowned as the woman’s pleasure button even without proper documentation, but it is only with the “discovery” and eventual fame of the G Spot that men became more aware of female ejaculation. Why? The possibility of a G Spot orgasm in women solves several problems:
• A man can go on with penetration without worrying that she’s not being pleasured
• Even if foreplay is lacking (he does not eat her out, finger her etc.), she can still have an orgasm
• He does not have to go out of his way to perform positions that allow clitoral touching to get her off
The G Spot climax, touted as more intense than a clitoral one, is a man’s best friend, but can you see the problem there? The G Spot is inside the vagina, well out of sight; even the woman herself does not know where exactly it is located. We can browse all the anatomy books we want, and memorize the inner vagina’s anatomy to perfection, but in actuality (during intercourse proper), a woman can’t really pinpoint which way a man should thrust to give her a G Spot orgasm.
There are positions that are said to allow G Spot stimulation, but again, the execution of these positions is subject to human error. Men who are able to thrust a certain way to give their girlfriends and wives the stimulation needed to achieve G Spot orgasm consistently are lucky but rare. The point is this: G Spot climax is hit-and-miss at best, and there are too many factors to consider– his skill, her flexibility to perform the needed positions, and her anatomy (and his!) – to perfect the achievement of a G Spot-induced climax at first try.
So, what about a “clitoral” orgasm? The clitoris is right there, visible and raring to be touched during sex. It could be inconvenient for the guy or the woman to touch it during sex (they might need all sets of hands to balance), but it isn’t impossible to do so. Moreover, women who already know how to make themselves cum during masturbation can touch their clitoris a certain way during sex to ensure that orgasm happens, several times at least.
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This is very interesting. I also read before that women’s clitorises varied in length about 3X more than the men’s penises do. This might explain why the G-spot differs so wildly among women.
No wonder so many women have different kinds of sexual experiences and probably much greater than men.
I agree! We are “hung” differently. Thanks for this comment, see you around!