Love comes in all sizes: short, tall, medium, petite. However, if the size difference between you and your partner is big, you might find yourself wondering “how are we going to do this?” You’re not alone. I myself am not a tall woman, but I often find really big men attractive. The personals section of AOL came up with this article describing the best sex positions for any ‘mismatched’ issue you may have. Here are my favorites:
He’s Too Short – The ‘Y’: She lies on her side facing him, with one leg in the air and the other on the bed, propping herself up on one arm (her body should look like a huge ‘Y’ shape.) He straddles her lower leg while her lifted leg rests on his shoulder and he penetrates her from the side.
She’s Too Short – Carry On: He begins on his knees and asks her to lower herself onto his erection, facing him. As she does, she wraps her legs around his waist and puts her arms around his neck. Then he slowly stands up, shaking her up and down.
My beef with being too short (relative to my lover’s body size) had something to do with the fact that we can’t kiss in certain positions. Kissing is one sure way to orgasm fast because it ads to the emotional oomph that you feel when you’re having sex with someone you’re attracted to. Remember how I described the sexual mood’s effect on orgasm intensity in my book? Direct contact that doesn’t only involve your pelvic parts plays a big role in fantasizing and going in your sexual trance (quite necessary for orgasm to occur in women).
Fortunately, I’ve learned to cope when my lover’s too tall. Here are some of the techniques I use to bridge the size gap: squatting when I’m on top (and grinding rather than moving up and down); creative use of furniture and table tops; and using pillows.
