Here are some of the things that we know about women and sex:
1. Some women love sex and actually crave it more than their mates
2. Some women are apathetic to sex and don’t care if they don’t get any for a time
3. Some women like sex until it turns into a chore (a chore to please her partner)
4. Some women like sex and keep liking it as they climax more often
5. Some women like sex even if they don’t climax as long as their partners reach orgasm
6. Some women convince themselves that they like sex even if they don’t climax because there’s always HOPE that they will climax the next time they try
7. Some women don’t know they can climax during sex
So is orgasm a big deal? Read this excerpt from Dear Deirdre:
It isn’t compulsory to have an orgasm. As long as a woman is left feeling satisfied, neither she nor her partner should feel that they have in any way failed because she hasn’t had an orgasm. Sex is for your pleasure, not to pass some test or keep up with the Jones’s. Many women, however, while they enjoy intercourse with their partner, never or rarely reach orgasm, and are left feeling dissatisfied as a result. Women’s problems over orgasm vary. Some women have never experienced an orgasm at all. This is often because they were brought up to think of sex as something not quite nice. Read More.
Enjoying intercourse with your partner can be a relaxing and fun experience. But I have to say that not reaching climax during sex kills the “fun”. It’s way to easy to start sex, but couples also have to be mindful of how it will end. If women are left hanging while their men sleep peacefully after having been pleasured completely, resentment could build. I’ve talked to women who claim that sex is “overrated” and I can say for sure that this statement has something to do with not ending sex properly by having an orgasm.
As soon as a woman learns that she CAN climax during sex, she’s going to crave for the climax every time she makes love. Sex will never be the same again. That’s when no-climax sex becomes unacceptable.
