Men’s Health shares this cunnilingus tip for men in a post entitled Be Her Best Lover Ever. Pretty useful for men who have always wondered how to make women climax.
Try a long, easy ice-cream lick from bottom to top that covers the full span of her inner labia and ends with her clitoral head. No matter how worked up she becomes, keep it slow and easy, and consistent. Tease her into delirium, then . . . Hit her with a series of fast vertical and diagonal tongue strokes on her clitoris. Then . . . Return to slow, easy strokes. Repeat until she’s out cold.
Why it works: This method eases her gently into clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is extremely sensitive at the outset. You’ll start her blood flowing while offering the consistent stimulation she needs. The bursts of vigor add surprise, spike her sexual response, and keep her moving toward orgasm.
The above skill is just one of the five that sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D recommends. He says that if you master five skills, she’ll want sex every night. Gentle tongue flicks always work because they build anticipation and tension. I think this is best done with the woman straddling the man’s face. Few men have the patience to spend more than a few minutes pleasuring a woman down there, so if you have a partner who’s willing to go the extra mile by gently stimulating the clitoris with alternating fast and slow strokes, you’re one lucky girl.
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Thank you for putting that note about maintaining a slow and relaxed pace. I hate when men speed their tongues up when you start getting more excited. If they just kept doing what they were doing, I’d be in bliss.