We all know that sex is exciting and the most beautiful thing that a man and a woman can share. But, if you’re a staid old couple and you’ve been having it for so long, it could get monotonous. Moreover, it becomes a chore that you do on a certain day, or something you squeeze in when there’s nothing else to do.
Even the hottest couples have off days, but when the off days turn into months and even years, the relationship hits rock bottom. Men’s Health came up with 5 ways to improve sex in a committed relationship. Here are my favorites.
Designate a New “Hump Day”
Carving out a day of erotic activity can stoke your woman’s fires. “People complain about ‘planning’ sex, but reserving this time will build anticipation all month,” says relationship therapist Michele Weiner-Davis.Your assignment: Set aside one weekend day a month to lavish attention on each other. Take a bath together, give massages, or play one-on-one strip poker.
Squeeze in a Quickie at a Party
Sneaking away from a public gathering for your own 20-minute private party can jolt a stagnant sex life, says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., author of Different Loving. And reminiscing about that stolen tryst can still spark desire even years later.Your assignment: At the next cocktail party, grab your girl’s hand and lead her to a secluded spot outside or even to your car. Since dryness can be a problem with on-the-fly nooky, start the fun by going down on her first.
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While I guess a “hump day” could work for some people, that would actually be a turn off for me. I think that would make it feel like we were having to try too hard and what if I’m not in the mood on that day. If it works for you though, more power to you.