One guy was wondering if all women are capable of squirting during orgasm. Here was Isabella’s reply at Sex Talk:
I think it highly unlikely that all women are capable of ejaculating during orgasm. In theory, I suppose they are, but, to be honest, I’m rather impressed that you’ve experience with so many who can. I do know several woman who say they squirt when they orgasm, but I’m certainly not one of them, and, frankly, I’ve no desire to be. My main priority during sex is a mind-blowing orgasm — not whether or not I get shoot my load all over the wall. The latter is certainly not necessary when it comes to achieving the first. Read more.
My own squirt score is quite low. That is, I never really notice. Let me clarify. When you’re in the throes of a powerful orgasm and you can’t even control your moans to save your life, finding out whether you squirted or not is difficult. It’s safe to assume that a girl does gush when she climaxes, but the amount of fluid squirted and the “squirt distance” is really beyond her control.
I marvel sometimes at guys who engage in “withdrawal” a.k.a. a very unsafe method of birth control. While they’re climaxing, they can still move around and slip out of a woman’s pussy to climax outside.
Women, on the other hand, don’t have the same control mechanism. When orgasm comes, a woman flows with it, and keeps at it until it settles (after 15-30 seconds). I’m sure I’m not the only one wishing it were longer and more intense every time, but regardless of our discontent, we still feel lucky that we are able to climax, when so many of our sisters cannot.
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I certainly must gush a lot when I climax because my boyfriend always make a comment on it. He seems facinated by it. He has joked around with me about seeing “how far it can shoot” but I can only orgasm while I am riding him and I certainly have no desire to interupt it for his viewing pleasure.
I’m always amazed that men can do the withdrawal method at all. I have never been able to stop when I’m in the midst of an orgasm; the thoughts wouldn’t even cross my mind. I don’t think I’d want to either.
You know, I think it really can depend on many variables. The way that a certain guy is shaped, and the internal geometry of your vagina can really determine what spot will be stimulated inside. Of course, size and length factors in too. I know they say size doesn’t always have to count, but in some cases, it does.