In one Sex Talk article, Miss Isabella helps out a man who is still in the dark whether a man can feel a woman’s orgasm or not. Her reply was juicy and to the point:
“When a female orgasms, her pussy (among other things) will contract rhythmically and automatically. To you, it would feel something like a pulsation wrapping itself around your cock. These contractions can vary in strength, depending on how strong the orgasm is, and they’ll pulsate at a rate of 1 per second — or perhaps a bit faster.
…If you’ve never felt a woman’s pussy contract during orgasm, it would be easy to make you think you were experiencing it; but if you’d felt the real thing at some point, you’d be able to spot the fake, as it’s nearly impossible for a woman to contract her pelvic floor muscles that fast in perfect rhythm.
So pay attention the next time you have sex; if you don’t feel any contractions and she claims to have orgasmed, there is a good chance she’s full of it. Read more.
I’m sure every woman is familiar with the phrase “did you climax”, and I’m willing to bet that most replies bordered on the neutral if not downright affirmative. Most men cannot tell if their partners climaxed, and is that a good thing for us girls? Maybe, but it depends on how you look at it.
Here is one of the reasons why women would fake an orgasm (because he can’t tell anyway)
- He looks so tired and you’re so tired. Saying “yes i did” seems to be the only ticket to sleep without much drama. Here’s the pickle: most men aren’t jerks who will leave the woman un-pleasured. One guy will try his best to get her to, but if she can’t at all, the ball is in her court… to fake or to say “you can’t make me climax, hun, but I still love you”?
If men learned how to spot a fake orgasm, there would be less “sex gods” in the world. But if women learned how to take care of their own climax, men wouldn’t have to ask “so..did ya?”.
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As a woman, I never knew that I had never had a true orgasm, until I actually started having them, thanks to one particular partner. Men who have experienced this know the difference for sure. Women actually ejaculate too, and he could feel me ejaculating on him and contracting internally too.