The AskMen website published a post, “5 reasons not to sleep with a virgin“, and the reasons are as follows: extra preparation for the sex, commitment, messy sex (with blood), freak-out potential (she might just decide she doesn’t want it), and her lack of skills (which translates to unpleasurable sex).
We have a sixth: First time sex for a woman becomes her bench mark.
Now, what does this mean exactly?
Have you ever heard yourself talk about your past (first) experience to your girl friends after you’ve had your second? That’s right, you tend to compare the second, third, fourth and fifth sexual encounter to the first, and it’s usually the first one that sucks.
Think of sex with a virgin as a clean slate. You get first dibs and she gets to use her experience with you to rate her next ones. Sure, she might get attached and she might even cry when you start showing signs of commitment phobia, but the reality is, once she’s over that, she’s free to talk about her first time with her friends, think about it more, and use the things she learned from her first time to make her second one more spectacular.
The challenge to cherry poppers is to make a virgin girl climax several times at least during her “awakening”. You’ll be doing her a favor, but more importantly, you will be doing yourself a favor. If things don’t get messy (break up drama etc.), she might even be your biggest endorser. Everyone loves a good testimonial; and coming through for her during her first time, during the time when she was an awkward, skill-less virgin, will earn you a good one.
A woman’s intercourse history does not define her sexuality, but it plays a big role on her view of sex in general. It even has a profound effect on how she likes it, her fetishes, her fantasies etc.
So, what do you think? Are we to say that the challenge of making a virgin — someone who doesn’t know the first thing about G Spot orgasms — climax at first try too great to take on?
