Foreplay is what we call the series of activities that come before actual intercourse. Some call it seduction, some call it the “loving” phase in the love making process. Whatever your definition of foreplay, you already know its importance during sex.
While we can talk all day about how foreplay can turn women on and how some women are only able to get off during foreplay, a study reported at Psychology Today tells us that foreplay duration does not play a role in inducing a climax.
The researchers, Petr Weiss and Stuart Brody, asked 2360 Czech women how consistently they had an orgasm when with a partner, the average amount of time spent on foreplay, and the average amount of time spent on penile-vaginal intercourse. Turns out, sex time was correlated with orgasm consistency, but foreplay time was not. The results held even after excluding women who said they were with literal minutemen (these guys may have had problems with premature ejaculation.)
I think foreplay has more to do with comfort and relaxation in the woman than actual orgasm (though oral sex and fingering top the list of foreplay activities that really get women off!). Simple kissing, stroking and whispered kinky words can spell the difference between great and lame sex. A woman’s inhibitions progressively decline with increasing foreplay duration, which makes “loving her up” a necessity during sex.
Although, it’s entirely possible to climax just by increasing the duration of the actual intercourse, foreplay does two things to a woman: improve intimacy and increase sexual cravings. Foreplay contributes to how women view sex, and is directly correlated with future sexual adventures.
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no matter how you view foreplay during sex, the important thing is you are enjoying yourself and in doing so you also get to know hot spots that your partner likes