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How does your man treat your sex toys? Are they his friends or his enemies?
This topic came up when one girl friend confessed that she asked her BF to buy a vibrator for Valentine’s. Needless to say, he didn’t like the idea. And so ensued an issue-ridden conversation that’s more or less predictable.. “Am I not good enough for you?” to “I just want to try it, what’s the big deal?”.
What is the big deal? Men do it all the time. Sure, they don’t always use special toys, but they use their hands. Should women be jealous of their hands? Sometimes, sex has a way of magnifying the relationship issues that couples must face. In this case the guy may be harboring insecurities about his ability to make her climax and/or the size of his penis.
Em & Lo recently posted about male masturbation and how men still fantasize even when the sex is good and frequent. One guy’s statement stood out:
“In order to masturbate, I have to have some kind of scenario in my head. It can be past experiences, girls that I’ve been with and (perhaps most often) girls that I want to be with. It might be the girl that was making eyes at me earlier in the day (though the likelihood is that I was making eyes at her and just misinterpreting her look of “what are you staring at?”) or perhaps stranger subjects, such as fictional girls from dreams, co-workers, or women that you might consider out of your age range but still attractive”
Which got me thinking: is it the dildo’s size, flexibility and vibrations, OR is it the erotic fantasy during female masturbation that’s making insecure men jealous?
